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A Faculty True Story

   
   We were already running late, But from the beginning it was my fault.
We got up late because I was up all night surfing the web for information. So now we are rushing out the door. They are still tired and they should be. Morning groggy is natural in our family. I am fully aware of the fact that my children have an no an early riser jean in their DNA. From the beginning it was my fault. But I somehow seemed to be single handedly ruining their morning. Because I stayed up so late, the got up late. Because we were running late, I was pushing them , and everything was making me upset.

  We have to take responsibility for our own actions. I told my son to drop what he has and come on. So he does, when I have to run into his room I almost trip over his shoes…….After a screaming match , which I soon apologized for, He said” You told me to drop everything. So I apologized to my son. I showed him there are many ways to show you are a man.

  Same day over my friends house, He is enraged, fuming over his kid deleting the information on his PDA. Where was it I said . It was right on the coffee table $@#$ then I found it in his room #$%^. I said How old is he,” He is three HE SHOULD KNOW BETTER!! I snickered, then to a slow laugh…know better ( snicker) After we busted out laughing I explained the theory of how bright , shiny electronics mean TOY, everything you hold dear means TOY, the world is a toy. We go through our homes everyday and check safety issues. We also need to do our own safety sweep. If it is more than 10. put it up high or it will be destroyed. And when we break this rule we must realize that it is our fault and the one that should be in time out is US. We teach them to take responsibility for their actions , we must take responsibility for our own. Check yourself ! Before you blame…..then apologize if you have to.